Do you put people in a negative frame? Maybe it’s a lazy frame or a rebellious frame. Ask God to help you see them as He sees them. It will help you to “re-frame” them.
Philippians 4:8: Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things.