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PROGRAM D-7556
I think we all recognize that the role models in our lives have had a great influence on us. Paul wrote to the Corinthians: “Follow my example, as I follow the example of Christ” (1 Cor. 11:1). That is the Bible’s definition of role modeling.
For us as believers, it is the natural result of a normal, growing walk with Jesus. In 2 Cor. 3:18 we see that we are being transformed into the likeness of Jesus with ever-increasing glory. So, if our lives as believers are a continuing transformation, becoming more and more like Jesus, then we can also say, “Follow my example, as I follow the example of Christ.”
We’re all role models whether we like it or not. There are people in your life who are watching you and they are being influenced by what they see. But obviously as believers, we want to make certain that we are the kind of role model that can say, “Follow me because I’m following Christ.”
We are responsible for the people we influence. That’s a sobering thought, isn’t it? We are responsible to set the best example of godly living we possibly can. We are not responsible for their behavior; they still have a free will to choose to follow our example or not. But if we do not give them the role model we should, we will be held accountable to God for our failure to be a good example.
If you want to become a more godly role model, I have produced a Role Model Improvement Form to help you. The first thing that form asks you to do is to make a list of the people in your life over whom you have some influence. Then add to that list the names of others that you would like to influence.
If you’re a parent, your children’s names will be at the top of the list. If you’re married, your mate’s name is likely to be on that list. Your co-workers are people over whom you have influence. If you’re a manager or business owner, the people who work for you definitely will be on that list. Your close friends are within your sphere of influence; other family members will be there. If you have any leadership roles in your church or other organizations, such as a teacher, you’ve got a list of people there for whom you are a role model.
Write those names down. You’ll be surprised how wide your influence spreads. Then start thinking about your role modeling responsibilities and pray for those people on your list.